If you are considering a wedding in one of our churches we hope you will find the following information helpful.
Our nine churches are:
|St Luke, Tiptree||All Saints, Great Braxted||St Mary the Virgin, Layer Marney|
|All Saints, Messing||St Mary the Virgin, Easthorpe||St John the Baptist, Layer de la Haye|
|All Saints, Inworth||St Michael & All Angels, Copford||St Mary the Virgin, Layer Breton|
Yes, if you are a man and a woman both over 18, British or EEC citizens, not related to each other and neither of you has been married before or been in a civil partnership. If you are a foreign national, it may be possible for you to be married in church but you will need to apply for permission from a registrar. If you have been married before, it may still be possible for you to be married in church but this will depend on the circumstances.
By law you can be married in any church where you have a qualifying connection. You would have a connection with a church if you live in the parish or have ever lived in it for at least six months, if your parents live in the parish, if you were christened in the church, if your parents or grandparents were married there, or if you or your parents have worshipped in the church for at least six months. If you have a connection with one of our nine churches, you can choose to be married in any of them.
If you don't already have a connection with one of our churches, you would need to establish one by coming to church regularly between now and your wedding. This must be for at least six months. Please note that we will not be able to confirm your wedding booking until you have been coming for six months, although we can make a provisional booking to hold a date for you.
Your wedding can take place on any day from Monday to Saturday, between 8 am and 5 pm. We are unable to offer weddings on Sundays, bank holidays, Christmas Eve or any day in Holy Week (the week before Easter).
You can choose your entry and exit music, hymns and readings. All of our churches have an organist available and some also have a choir and bells. You may bring your own choir or musicians. You will need at least one reading from the Bible but you can also choose other appropriate readings. You won't be able to make up your own vows, but you will be able to choose between traditional and modern wording.
This depends on which church you choose. Our smallest churches at Layer Breton and Inworth can seat only 40-60 people, while our largest, in Tiptree, seats 220.
If you have a friend or family member who is an ordained Church of England priest with permission from a bishop to take services, it will usually be possible for him or her to take your wedding service. Ministers of other denominations can be invited, at the discretion of the Team Rector, to preach or lead prayers, but the service must be conducted by a Church of England priest.
No, the church takes care of all the legal aspects of your wedding.
This will depend on which church you choose and which options eg choir, bells. Your wedding is likely to cost between £550 and £900. We won't ask you to pay a deposit, but your fees will be payable in cash or as a BACS transfer in the weeks before your wedding.
If you book a wedding with us, we will invite you to our Marriage Preparation Day in the January or April of the year you are being married. This a full day when we give you an information pack and talk you through every aspect of your service. You will then meet with the minister taking your wedding about three months beforehand and you will have a full rehearsal in church in the fortnight before your wedding. Each church has a team of vergers who will be on hand to advise you throughout the process.
If you would like to check whether a date is available or ask any other questions, please contact one of the clergy. If you don't already have a qualifying connection with any of our churches, you will need to start coming to services. You can find our service times on our website. Your next step will be to come to a wedding booking meeting to make a provisional booking (or a definite one if you already have a connection). In 2018 these are held in the office at St Luke’s Church, Church Road, Tiptree CO5 0SU between 11 am and 12 noon on the following Saturdays:
13th January • 17th February • 17th March • 28th April • 26th May • 23rd June • 14th July • 8th September • 13th October • 17th November
Please bring your passports with you when you come to book your wedding. If you do not have a passport, please contact Anne-Marie in advance.
If you have been married before and are divorced, you will need to make an appointment to see one of the clergy rather than coming to a booking meeting. Please contact Anne-Marie or Lydia to arrange this.
We look forward to meeting you and helping you plan for your wedding day.
Page updated: 17 Jan 2018 at 15:58